Marriage tools, from the planning on

Planning the wedding, agreeing a pre-nup, or working through a separation — each tool starts from a situation like yours, answers in plain words, and keeps the details within reach.

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Nothing is uploaded The wedding planning tools keep your plan in this browser, on a separate part of the site with no advertising or analytics, so it is there next time — back it up whenever you like. The pre-nup and divorce tools keep nothing at all: close the tab and it is gone.

Planning the wedding

One plan shared by five tools — the checklist, the budget, the guests, the seating and the day — plus the drinks.

Wedding Planner A countdown, a dashboard, and a month-by-month checklist that dates itself from your wedding day. start here Wedding Budget Spread the total across categories, then track real prices, deposits, balances due and cost per guest. 4 starting splits Guest List & RSVPs Sides, groups, replies, meals and plus-ones, with a live headcount and spreadsheet import. csv in and out Seating Chart Set out the tables, then pick, drag or seat everyone in their groups — with warnings for full tables. keeps groups together Wedding Day Timeline The day hour by hour around the ceremony, with golden hour, clashes and a schedule to print. calendar file too Wedding Drinks Calculator Bottles of wine, beer, spirits and bubbly from guests, hours and the kind of bar — in cases, with ice. nothing saved

Planning to marry

Before you sign a pre-nup: what you each bring, how it changes over the years, what to agree, and whether there is time.

What Each of You Brings List what you each own and owe, mark every item theirs or shared, and see where you would each stand. 4 starting points Separate or Shared Later Watch a home owned before the wedding become partly shared over the years — and what one clause changes. slide the years Pre-Nup Conversation Checklist Twelve topics to go through together, ending in a short list to take to your lawyers. copy or print the list Pre-Nup Timeline Pick the wedding date and see every step laid out backwards from the day, with a plain warning when it is too tight. dates for each step

If it ends

Separation and divorce: the way through, the children's schedule, the property and two budgets. These pages carry a quick-exit button and no advertising or analytics. About the divorce tools.

Divorce Path Planner Doing it yourselves, mediation, collaborative law or court — which way through fits, and the steps in order. safety first Parenting Schedule 2-2-3, 2-2-5-5 and more on a calendar: nights each, handovers, and the longest time apart. every common schedule Property & Debt Division Who takes what, what each side ends up with, and the payment that evens it out. assets and debts Two-Household Budget One household's money stretched across two homes — what is left in each, every month. support included

Planning aids, not legal advice. The rules on pre-nups, property and support differ between states and countries. Use these to understand your situation and arrive at a lawyer's office knowing what you want to ask. The pre-nup guide and divorce paths guide go further.

Why these belong together

The questions are the same at either end of a marriage — whose is it, what became shared, what happens to the home, who supports whom. Before the wedding you can answer them together, calmly, while you agree about almost everything. After a separation the same questions are answered under pressure, often by other people. The pre-nup tools are the cheap version of the divorce tools, and the wedding tools are where most couples start.

That is not a prediction about anyone's marriage. Most couples who write a pre-nup never use it; what they get from it is a conversation about money they would otherwise have avoided.

Private on purpose

There are no accounts and nothing is uploaded. A wedding plan has to last for months, so the planner, budget, guest list, seating chart and day timeline keep it in your browser on app.toolsfully.com — a part of the site that runs no advertising or analytics — and a backup file lets you move it or keep it safe. The pre-nup and divorce tools save nothing at all, so nothing is left behind on a shared computer; copy or print a result if you want to keep it.